The Unity Candle Ceremony
Meaning - This ceremony visually depicts how the couple is joining their lives and that they are supported by their family or honored guests
Time - About 1 minute
Supplies:
- A center pillar candle – usually on a stand
- Two smaller side candles – typically tapered style candles, on a stand
- Matches
Placement - This Ceremony Enhancement a two part ceremony, initial candle lighting is done with the seating of the parents or honored guests. The second part can be incorporated at any point in the ceremony.
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Example of the wording for this Enhancement:
Spoken by the Officiant
Observe the two candles burning. Selected person lit one candle in memory/honor of _____ or as a show of their support for the union between _____ and _____.
Selected person lit the second candle in memory/honor of _____ or as a show of their support for the union between _____ and _____.
_____ and _____ will use these 2 candles to light the 3rd candle, which represents the joining of their lives & their families.





